Positive Relater

Ideally, positive scores should fall well within the unshaded area. A high score in this section, with a mid-zone score at least 6 points below the positive score and a negative score at least 12 points below the positive score, indicates a leaning toward positive behavior.

Positive Relaters are gentle, caring, considerate and compassionate. They genuinely care about people and work at making relationships effective. They see and anticipate the needs of others and are ever willing to lend a helping hand or a sympathetic ear when needed. They express their own wants and needs, but will seldom make demands on others. They recognize that indecisiveness can be detrimental to them and to building healthy relationships and so, have generally learned decision making skills. They are great team players. They are ever willing to adjust themselves in the interest of harmony, but will not allow themselves to be abused. Positive Relaters see interactions as the breath of life. Happy, healthy relationships are central to their own happiness. They have no need and no desire to control others. Their aim and goal is one of mutually supportive and beneficial relationships.

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